What if I am single or want individual counseling?

No problem.  MFTs are not restricted to working only with families.  Most of the problems people seek counseling for are in some way related to past or present relationships, the MFTs specialty.  In fact, most of the people who actually seek counseling are individuals.  If you or I feel that we are not a good match together in counseling, I will give you several leads or referrals to someone else I believe may be able to help you better.